Rakshabandhan...... What does this day refers to and what does it means for..?? Is it a special occasion for us or just a formality in today's scenario..??
It is a popular festival in which girls tie rakhi or sacred thread around their brother’s wrist. The sacred thread signifies the bond of protection in which sister pray for the well being of her brother and brother promises to protect her sister from all harm and from every affliction, but are we keeping our promises made to our sisters ?? If not then why not and if yes then why this NIRBHAYA kaand happens ?? then why a 7 years old sister is being raped in Mumbai ?? then why all the girls have fear to walk alone on road even on the day time ??
Just think by yourself, are not we just making formality with this occasion (parv) and lying to our sisters ??
In India there are almost 81% Hindus but then can we say that 81 out of every 100 girls are safe walking out there, no we can't.
Last year (2013) 33,707 rape cases were registered from all over the country.
According to the reports 10 girls per day are victimized in UP. Mumbai also known as the safest city for girls in the country but there were 138 cases registered only in the first quarter of the year (2014) and out of which 76 was of minors victims. So, just give me one reason to celebrate this occasion..??
That's why today a sister fears from brother, a daughter fears from father and daughter-in-law fears from father-in-law.
Where the hell are we going ?? If this is the cost of modernizing and developing the society then i am sorry but i am not with you. Do hell with the society where the girls have no right to walk alone, where there is fear all the way for our sisters and daughters.
Can i just a question to you all, We always asks to our sisters and daughters that don't wear those types of clothes which exposes you, be in your limit, don't make boy-friends etc., but does we ever asks to our brothers and sons to don't abuse a girl, not to do eve-teasing... No, never, even we are all proud of them because they have got guts to do that,, but why then we feel suffered if anything misshapen to our sisters and daughters ??
These all conditions are made by us and we are all responsible if any girl is victimized by any of the boy. Just think about it, Aren't we and our society is responsible for all this ??
Sisters are the one who cares for us, who always wishes there brothers to live happily and with prosperity, and i know we all love our sisters a lot and it is not possible to show all the affection and love but the way to show your love towards your be-loving sister is to make her feel that she is safe and is always being protected by you, make her feel that you are always with her.
We all are Indian and being an Indian we all might have taken pledge every morning in our school that "India is my country and all Indians are my brothers and sisters", and as we care for our sisters each boy also care for there sisters too likewise if any girl is victimized today who is unknown to you then tomorrow it can be your sister too.
On this auspicious occasion every year we gave money or gifts to our sisters but this time, this year give her a feeling of love and safety and also a surety that you will try and protect every girl out there.
Come on make a promise to yourself that from this rakshabandhan you are not only going to ask questions to your sisters and daughters but also to your brothers and sons.
This Rakshabandhan gift a promise to your sister that you will be always with her during all afflictions, then only this festival will be happiest for your sisters and you too..... HAPPY RAKSHABANDHAN
It is a popular festival in which girls tie rakhi or sacred thread around their brother’s wrist. The sacred thread signifies the bond of protection in which sister pray for the well being of her brother and brother promises to protect her sister from all harm and from every affliction, but are we keeping our promises made to our sisters ?? If not then why not and if yes then why this NIRBHAYA kaand happens ?? then why a 7 years old sister is being raped in Mumbai ?? then why all the girls have fear to walk alone on road even on the day time ??
Just think by yourself, are not we just making formality with this occasion (parv) and lying to our sisters ??
In India there are almost 81% Hindus but then can we say that 81 out of every 100 girls are safe walking out there, no we can't.
Last year (2013) 33,707 rape cases were registered from all over the country.
According to the reports 10 girls per day are victimized in UP. Mumbai also known as the safest city for girls in the country but there were 138 cases registered only in the first quarter of the year (2014) and out of which 76 was of minors victims. So, just give me one reason to celebrate this occasion..??
That's why today a sister fears from brother, a daughter fears from father and daughter-in-law fears from father-in-law.
Where the hell are we going ?? If this is the cost of modernizing and developing the society then i am sorry but i am not with you. Do hell with the society where the girls have no right to walk alone, where there is fear all the way for our sisters and daughters.
Can i just a question to you all, We always asks to our sisters and daughters that don't wear those types of clothes which exposes you, be in your limit, don't make boy-friends etc., but does we ever asks to our brothers and sons to don't abuse a girl, not to do eve-teasing... No, never, even we are all proud of them because they have got guts to do that,, but why then we feel suffered if anything misshapen to our sisters and daughters ??
These all conditions are made by us and we are all responsible if any girl is victimized by any of the boy. Just think about it, Aren't we and our society is responsible for all this ??
Sisters are the one who cares for us, who always wishes there brothers to live happily and with prosperity, and i know we all love our sisters a lot and it is not possible to show all the affection and love but the way to show your love towards your be-loving sister is to make her feel that she is safe and is always being protected by you, make her feel that you are always with her.
We all are Indian and being an Indian we all might have taken pledge every morning in our school that "India is my country and all Indians are my brothers and sisters", and as we care for our sisters each boy also care for there sisters too likewise if any girl is victimized today who is unknown to you then tomorrow it can be your sister too.
On this auspicious occasion every year we gave money or gifts to our sisters but this time, this year give her a feeling of love and safety and also a surety that you will try and protect every girl out there.
Come on make a promise to yourself that from this rakshabandhan you are not only going to ask questions to your sisters and daughters but also to your brothers and sons.
This Rakshabandhan gift a promise to your sister that you will be always with her during all afflictions, then only this festival will be happiest for your sisters and you too..... HAPPY RAKSHABANDHAN
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