RAKSHABANDHAN

Rakshabandhan...... What does this day refers to and what does it means for..?? Is it a special occasion for us or just a formality in today's scenario..??

It is a popular festival in which girls tie rakhi or sacred thread around their brother’s wrist. The sacred thread signifies the bond of protection in which sister pray for the well being of her brother and brother promises to protect her sister from all harm and from every affliction, but are we keeping our promises made to our sisters ?? If not then why not and if yes then why this NIRBHAYA kaand happens ?? then why a 7 years old sister is being raped in Mumbai ?? then why all the girls have fear to walk alone on road even on the day time ??

Just think by yourself, are not we just making formality with this occasion (parv) and lying to our sisters ??

In India there are almost 81% Hindus but then can we say that 81 out of every 100 girls are safe walking out there, no we can't.
Last year (2013) 33,707 rape cases were registered from all over the country.
According to the reports 10 girls per day are victimized in UP. Mumbai also known as the safest city for girls in the country but there were 138 cases registered only in the first quarter of the year (2014) and out of which 76 was of minors victims. So, just give me one reason to celebrate this occasion..??

That's why today a sister fears from brother, a daughter fears from father and daughter-in-law fears from father-in-law.
Where the hell are we going ?? If this is the cost of modernizing and developing the society then i am sorry but i am not with you. Do hell with the society where the girls have no right to walk alone, where there is fear all the way for our sisters and daughters.

Can i just a question to you all, We always asks to our sisters and daughters that don't wear those types of clothes which exposes you, be in your limit, don't make boy-friends etc., but does we ever asks to our brothers and sons to don't abuse a girl, not to do eve-teasing... No, never, even we are all proud of them because they have got guts to do that,, but why then we feel suffered if anything misshapen to our sisters and daughters ??
These all conditions are made by us and we are all responsible if any girl is victimized by any of the boy. Just think about it, Aren't we and our society is responsible for all this ??

Sisters are the one who cares for us, who always wishes there brothers to live happily and with prosperity, and i know we all love our sisters a lot and it is not possible to show all the affection and love but the way to show your love towards your be-loving sister is to make her feel that she is safe and is always being protected by you, make her feel that you are always with her.

We all are Indian and being an Indian we all might have taken pledge every morning in our school that "India is my country and all Indians are my brothers and sisters", and as we care for our sisters each boy also care for there sisters too likewise if any girl is victimized today who is unknown to you then tomorrow it can be your sister too.
On this auspicious occasion every year we gave money or gifts to our sisters but this time, this year give her a feeling of love and safety and also a surety that you will try and protect every girl out there.

Come on make a promise to yourself that from this rakshabandhan you are not only going to ask questions to your sisters and daughters but also to your brothers and sons.

This Rakshabandhan gift a promise to your sister that you will be always with her during all afflictions, then only this festival will be happiest for your sisters and you too..... HAPPY RAKSHABANDHAN

Make Yourself - A Friend "INDEED"

We all might have heard different definitions on friendships and like ways this can have different meanings and aspects for every other individual in there life but here the point is who are FRIENDS, what they are in our life and what they mean to us.

From our childhood days we all have learned that "a friend in need is a friend indeed" but the point is who is your INDEED FRIEND. we all might have made many friends from school days, from college, from neighbor and from the work place. Some are just friends, some good friends, some best friends, some childhood friends, fake friends and some REAL Friends. We all are having few friends who fulfill the above criteria.

Friendship and friends is the only relationship and people who came to your life but it was your decision to stay with them. It is the only relation which is made by us and is our will to make a person our friend unlike other relations which god has given to us.

As i said we all might have different opinion and also may have different definition of friends but i am having only one definition of FRIENDS - "FABULOUS RELATION WHICH IS INSEPARABLE AND NEVER ENDS".
Yes, your indeed friend may have may many fights with you, you may not have talked with for many days but they always have been there whenever you needed them the most. They are the friends who understands you more than you understand yourself. These people who understands you more than yourself are very rare and few if you have one then don't ever let them go.

It doesn't matter how far your friend is and how often you get in touch with them, a real friend of yours will always find a way to stay there with you, they are the one who will never avoid you because of someone else, they will be always with you despite of your conditions.

Friends means to us the most in this world, they are the only persons whom you trust upon more than yourself. We share everything with them, the things which we didn't share with our family too.
A friend is someone with whom you share your sorrow, your problems and your joys too.

I just want to say here is that just try to be you and be a kind of friend which is always remembered by others when they are in need. Try to make yourself an INDEED Friend for your friends because you have chosen them to be your friend.

 If you want an INDEED Friendship from others then you only have to make yourself an INDEED, after all To Have A Friend, Be A Friend First....

knowing UNKNOWN me

I was willing to write a blog for almost 2 month ago, i did register with bloggers and did everything essential to write, but i was a missing a name for my blog to start with. I did search many sites for a good name but i couldn't find one, so i started asking some of my friends to suggest me a good name and was not lucky enough to find the name which can say something about me and the blog.

Today, while i was talking to one of my friend i asked him to help me out and he said " first explore yourself what you want to write ? " i then replied : i want to write everything what goes in my head - my feelings, my views, my anger, politics, sports, what i did, what i want to do, anything and everything, all of it, i just want to write i have many things to say. and he says " OK go for it and believe me u can do it ".

As i was giving answer to his question the thing just clicked my head was " Explore Yourself " and then suddenly i said thanks to him for giving me a wonderful name to my first ever blog.

I always have wanted to write since i was in school, i did write but only for myself and now i am going to write for all of us. 

To "know the unknown me" is kind a part of our life and a new chapter to begin with from where we all start to believe in oneself and to know what we are and what we want to be and above all what makes us happy. All of us has some hidden qualities and desires, we all just had need to get started and explore oneself again to find hidden me.

Some of my wonderful friends know this unknown part of mine but from now i want all my dear ones to know this and yes i want all of u to be there to witness this new chapter which is going to be added in my life.

I believe it is going to be fun to explore oneself again and all the best for all of them who are going to start to explore them-self to know the unknown u....

after all knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.